Because joy is the goal, not perfection.
Welcome! I founded This Ain’t the Lyceum in 2012 to record the joy in my days as a homeschooling SAHM to five kids. Since then I’ve written a book, founded a non-profit, and learned a lot about running multiple online businesses while managing the chaos of real life.

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- A New Business, a Festival, and Summer FunJuly has been packed with so many of my favorite summer events. I’ve also been busy writing up lesson plans for Teddy and my co-op class. And since Fulton just turned 18 I got to enjoy…
- Adeline Got Married!!!How is it possible that this child of mine is now a Mrs. ????? I can’t possibly be old enough to be a MOTHER IN LAW!!!! Where to start? We arrived in Cleveland on Monday, June…
- Keeping Busy During JuneOur family is on the road to Cleveland for Addie’s forthcoming nuptials! AAAAAAAAA!!! I can’t believe we’re only DAYS away. While Tony took a turn behind the wheel I thought I would write an update on…
- It gets easier, but sometimes it’s still hard.I came home from Cleveland Monday night 5/11, wrote up a blog post summarizing all the big things going on and slipped in a few sentences and a update about Fulton being sick. I so desperately…

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Homeschooling Help
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- How to Tell if Homeschooling is Not WorkingLast year I got a great question from Leslie on my curriculum post. She asked, Would you consider writing a post on how to evaluate the difference between “Homeschooling is not always fun and easy,…
- How to Use Google Classroom in Your HomeschoolI actually wrote an ebook with this same title a few years ago for a bundle sale, but for some reason, I never wrote a blog post on the same topic. With some homeschoolers already…
- How To Use Timelines In Your HomeschoolThis week our timeline jumped from one wall to the next in its ongoing march around our dining room. It’s nice to have it back after a couple of years. Nothing screams to guests, “We’re…
- Homeschool Grades and Creating a Homeschool TranscriptAdmittedly, one of the least exciting aspects of homeschooling is grading your child’s assignments. And while you may be able to fudge things for a bit while your kids are young, homeschoolers with an eye…
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Living the Faith
Liturgical living and Catholic inspiration. Read more —>
- My Conversion Story: Methodist to Roman CatholicThis week, in honor of the holiest day of the year (a.k.a. EASTER) I thought I would share my conversion story. I’ve always hesitated to share too much because I don’t want my…
- Beyond Candy and Crafts: Living Liturgically With Older KidsThis week on November 11th, our family will celebrate Martinmas, and as tradition we will mark the feast of St. Martin of Tours with friends around a roast duck…or maybe two. (But only…
- Heroic Patience: The Ten Virtues of MaryI originally offered to write on heroic patience as a joke. While I couldn’t think of anyone who was bragging about their ample supply of patience, it seemed there should be some other…
- Veiling At Mass: How To Give It A TryTo veil or not to veil; that is the question…..that I am not touching with a 10 foot pole. I’ll let you decide for yourself whether you feel compelled to veil, a.k.a wear…

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